Sometimes apologizing doesn't actually make the difference you hoped it would. Saying sorry after doing something wrong is like buying the ingredients for a cake for his/her birthday. It doesn't actually mean anything until you make up for it.
I personally feel that saying sorry doesn't make anything right. For me, somebody apologizing without doing making up for it is like giving me a sandwich without any filling. It basically worthless.
People can apologize for several things, like from losing a friend's rubber/eraser, losing your boss's Ferrari car keys or even sleeping with their bestfriend's girlfriend.
Imagine your bestfriend slept with your girlfriend(imagine you have a girlfriend in the first place). And you walk into them making out. You could probably feel the betrayal oozing out of your fingers. Your bestfriend might make it up to you by exchanging with his girlfriend with yours(probably a smile might creep into your face), or punch you in the face real hard, so hard that you wake up and realize it was a dream.
I personally feel that saying sorry doesn't make anything right. For me, somebody apologizing without doing making up for it is like giving me a sandwich without any filling. It basically worthless.
People can apologize for several things, like from losing a friend's rubber/eraser, losing your boss's Ferrari car keys or even sleeping with their bestfriend's girlfriend.
Imagine your bestfriend slept with your girlfriend(imagine you have a girlfriend in the first place). And you walk into them making out. You could probably feel the betrayal oozing out of your fingers. Your bestfriend might make it up to you by exchanging with his girlfriend with yours(probably a smile might creep into your face), or punch you in the face real hard, so hard that you wake up and realize it was a dream.
There will always be a point in your life where you've ruined another person's day. Or you might have not kept up the promise that you swore never to tell anybody. But if you say "Hitler promised not to invade Czechoslovakia, bro," your probably on the safe side.
There are always conflicts between two or maybe more. And sometimes just saying sorry doesn't make any difference. Just like the old woman apologized in front of some thing in Valentine's Day (FYI, I watched it for Jessica Alba and Emma Roberts and a bit for Ashton Kutcher).
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